“Why on earth would anyone send their kid away to boarding schools?!” is something I was asked many times during my career as a teacher at a prep school. Having lived in the boys dorm for nearly seven years, I could have given an array of answers to this question; however, I thought it my duty to remain diplomatic, so as not to offend the person asking the question, should they have a strong opinion one way or the other. My usual appropriately vague response was: “Some people feel it is a good opportunity for their child”. The truth is, there are numerous reasons why some parents or guardians send their children away to boarding school, and to go into each and every one would be a diatribe in and of itself. If you are a parent thinking of sending your child to a prep school, you may be facing the question yourself of whether or not to have your son or daughter board versus being a day student. Inevitably, you have read articles about this topic, or talked to friends about what they think. Living at a boarding school has many benefits, and depending on what sources you have read, benefits can range from a child having a sense of increased independence to thriving in a highly structured environment. Those are rather textbook answers, and the glossy promotional magazines schools put out do not always display or discuss the real benefits to living at a boarding school during adolescence. From the perspective of someone who lived the life for many years, here are three hidden benefits to consider when you are pondering “to board or not to board”.
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